Having trouble finding the right way to approach a beautiful woman? Since the beginning of recorded time, men have stressed over how to approach women. Even men who are models, actors, sex symbols harbor inner-fears. It has nothing to do with you in general. It has to do with our internal programming. Even though a person can seem extremely handsome or beautiful to others, they have this inner voice that tells them there is something wrong with them. This inner voice kills their ability to approach women with confidence.
You may think I am just writing about this with no experience, but I was once trapped in this same world. It took me some internal reprogramming to build my confidence. After I learned how to do that, I study a few methods to meeting women and the rest is history. And before you say anything, I am not tall. Actually I am very short, I don’t have lots of money and I don’t have a lot of friends. Even with all these limitations, I am able to get any woman I want and you can do the same.
How to Approach Women – Strategies For Men
The first thing you want to do is get comfortable with you own self. You first need to like yourself for someone to like you. Getting comfortable in your skin is being self-assured and looking your best all the time. If you dress sloppy, then pay a bit of money to someone who can define a look for you. When you look different, you drop the view of the old you and you become someone that you will like and others will like as well.
As a student of how to approach women, starting looking at the world and at women with a positive attitude. Don’t imagine the worst. Even if your heart is racing, walk with your chest high and a smile in your eye. Imagine your intents will result in a positive result. It is all about visualizing the outcome before it happens. If you can do this, you body language will change and women will definitely notice.
Give meaningful compliments to a woman, yet don’t over do it. One or two general compliments are enough. Don’t comment on her beauty, yet comment on her choice of clothing or the way she wears her hair. You can even comment on her smile. Stay away from commenting on her body or physical attributes of her looks.
Be charming, but don’t over do it. When you over do charming, women feel they can walk all over you and it kills the attraction. Open a door for a lady, pull out her seat, but don’t offer to run to get her drinks or pay for everything she needs. This type of behavior will not get you far and will only get her using you as a bank account.
Now, make a mind picture of the event, but creatively imagine a favorable outcome. See yourself approaching her and watch her smile prettily. Envision the two of you sharing great conversation. By creatively changing the outcome from a negative experience you have planted a positive thought-seed in your subconscious mind. You can summon the mind picture at any time.
Once you achieved these thought problems kick out the negative thoughts and never go back to them. If these thoughts or fears come back, tell yourself, “STOP… RESET” and change that thought to a positive outcome. This really works, trust me on this. If you do it enough, those negative thoughts and fears will leave you and never return. You will be a better person for it and you will attract love, intimacy and women like crazy.
So now you have the tools in practicing how to approach women. There are plenty of women out, Practice the tips in this article and you will become that person you dreamed of becoming. It is there for the taking, you just need to reach out and grab it.